Beloved
mother, grandmother, wife, and
pioneering woman in computer programming,
Saida Khan died at home in Kalamazoo
early Saturday morning, July 1,
2017.
She
was 93 years old.
Born
in Bhavnagar, India, Saida met
and married Muzaffer Khan, a well-respected
criminal and corporate lawyer
in 1949.
The
couple had three children: Ahsan,
Sabiha, and Saleem.
Always
quite determined to succeed, while
her children were growing up Saida
worked for the ICI Foundation
in Karachi, Pakistan, and in her
spare time took courses to learn
a new skill in auto mechanics
and radio repair.
“My
mother migrated to the United
States in 1975 following her children,”
recalled her eldest son, Ahsan
Khan.
“She
immediately learned how to drive
and landed a job as administrative
assistant at Lincoln National
Life Insurance in Fort Wayne,
Indiana, while learning data processing
in night school.”
During
those early years in the U.S.,
Saida Khan worked around the clock,
pulling herself up by the bootstraps
to get ahead in America.
“My
mother had a long and quite interesting
life,” Saleem Khan recalled.
“She
was invited to teach the Urdu
language to Mahatma Gandhi, but
being very young and shy she decided
to pass on that offer.
“Later
as a computer programmer she worked
on and was recognized for a program
she created for the Pentagon."
“The
remarkable thing about Ammi (mother),”
Ahsan Khan said, “was that
she was well into middle age and
had raised a family, and still
had the drive and determination
to start from scratch in her newly
adopted country—the United
States of America.”
Into
her mid-50s, Saida was surrounded
by people half her age.
“Ammi
excelled in her career at Lincoln
and made lots of friends,”
her son Ahsan recalled.
“She
was quite independent, and enjoyed
spending her time relaxing with
a good book or the newspaper.
“Ammi
also had a very dry wit.”
Her
nephew Professor Zahir Quraeshi
(Western Michigan University)
recalls:
“I
used to always love to tease Saida
Khala when she would smile that
wonderfully impish grin, asking
her, ‘what are you smiling
about?’ I always knew it
was something she was recalling
with her special take on life.
“Her
observations on things like family
and life are fondly remembered.”
“Among
all her many gifts, Ammi had also
developed an artistic talent for
creating hand-drawn holiday cards
for Eid and Christmas, birthdays
and special occasions. I treasure
those personal artifacts,”
recalled Saida’s daughter,
Sabiha. “I was in awe of
all she accomplished in life.
She is a constant inspiration
for me.
“Ammi
was a no-nonsense kind of person.
She always challenged me to do
more and better myself,”
Sabiha said.
“She
also imbued in all her children
a spirit of volunteerism and social
justice. I can remember as teenagers
volunteering at hospitals and
orphanages.”
“In
later life, at Crossroads Senior
Residence in Portage,” Ahsan
said, “Ammi worked in the
library and also at The Portage
Senior Center training people,
young and old, in the use of computers.”
Both
Lincoln National Life Insurance
and computer giant IBM recognized
Saida Khan’s work as a pioneering
woman in IT.
She
received several commendations
during her tenure from both companies.
On
Sunday July 2, 2017, Saida Khan
ended her long and fruitful journey
and was laid to rest in the Ever-Rest
Cemetery in Kalamazoo. She joins
her husband, Muzaffer, who died
in March 2009.
In
attendance at her graveside were
her three children, grandchildren,
and their families, and a large
cross-section of distinguished
community leaders.
Thinking
about Saida and how she quietly
left us very early this past Saturday,
July 1, it brings to mind a wonderfully
uplifting sentiment from Mahalia
Jackson:
Well,
in that great gettin' up mornin'
(Fare
ye well, fare ye well)
Well,
in that great gettin' up mornin'
(Fare
ye well, fare ye well).
Geoffrey Arend
(Special thanks
to Ahsan Khan, Sabiha & Flossie
Arend, & Zahir Quraeshi ) |